Why Relationship Coaching?

Hi. I am Fiona and I am a Relationship Coach and breakup specialist.

What is that?

I help Commited and Willing-Hearted cients with their relationships, especially their breakups, and I have been doing this since 2021.

Why Relationship Coaching, though? Why do you even need a Relationship Coach, honestly? You've been going at your Relationships on your own since you first started dating and like everyone else it's a very personal journey, isn't it?

That's the normal thing to do. You meet someone, you feel the spark, you fall in love, get together.. Some times it works out, some times it doesn't...

You don't really know why and that's okay.

You do whatever it is you do after a breakup and then meet someone else and try again.

This is what's normal. Standard.

For you and for everyone else.

It isn't.

It isn't okay or normal to not know why some times it works and some times it doesn't.

It shouldn't be.

And that's why I am here. To navigate your Relationship Journey with you as your personal trainer.

Your Relationship Coach is your most powerful secret weapon. We weren't taught emotional growth or how to love growing up.

We sort of understand it through our own experiences of watching our parents' marriage (and that isn't always the best education since our parents are also only figuring out).. From watching TV and learning what is romance from movies and sitcoms..

We meander our way into our own first relationships..

And just hope for the best.

I don't believe in that.

I believe that Relationships, like every other meaningful pursuit, is something we should go into with help and support for the greatest success.

Failures are a necessary lesson. Failures help us be better.

There is absolutely no shame to be had to try and fail. I believe that actively seeking help isn't weakness. It is strength.

It is recognizing that we all need a little bit more than just our own lion-heart tenacity and going in blindly with nothing more than bravery to love. I learned that in my own experience when I went through my own breakup with my ex.

My one big ex let's call him. We were young, we were 21, our love story was beautiful, and when he proposed, it was a fairy tale.

But... Not for me.

Do I love him? Yes, I did.

Yet I did not want to say yes and I could not for the life of me figure out why.

In the end we broke up - I broke up with him - and it was terrible.

Gosh it was truly terrible.

I did not know how to breakup. I did not know how to handle my own emotions.

Everything was a whirl and a mess and it was screaming, yelling, cryinf, begging, pleading (that's all me).

He didn't see it coming he lost it.

It was even messier because of our religious differences, our racial differences, our family's involvement....

It was: Armageddon.

I was never more lost than I was that day, when I moved out of our home and moved back in with my parents... What went wrong?

What was wrong with me? Then I met my mentor who helped me work through myself. His words resonated with me. He helped me shift my perspective and I unlearned everything I thought I knew (I was pretty full of myself back then, I'll admit) and started from the ground up. Who I am.

Who I want to be. Who I am in Love.

What I want and need in my Relationship.

How to Love. How to give and receive Love.

How to Communicate in a healthy way.

That was in 2016.

I spent years, first as a client, then as a Relationship Coach, learning about myself and learning how to help others in their Relationship Journeys.

It was humbling. It was scary.

To have someone else, another human being, coming to me with their Relationship, a most personal and vulnerable part of being human, and hoping, trusting, that I can help them... I felt very sure I was not up to it.

Yet...

As I helped more and more clients, I was proud when I see them learn about themselves, learn about their partners, learning how to love better and building better Relationships...

Reconciling with their ex...

Getting over mistakes and failures and becoming better...

Working through some crazy situations...

Their success inspires me.

I truly believe in the power of Relationship Coaching.

In doing the work to create your own reality in your Relationships.

In conscious love and intentional choices.

I don't believe in simply leaning into luck or good fortune.

I believe in seizing my own fate in my own hands.

Your Relationship Coach is your most powerful personal trainer.

If you are already in a Relationship Coaching experience with your own Coach...

Is your Coach giving you the results that you want?

If yes, you found a great Coach for yourself.

Keep going. I am happy for you.

If not, reach out. Let's talk.

If you believe in doing the work...

I am here for you to help you create the Relationship you deserve.

Fiona.